How do you know if your in love?
If you find yourself asking this question, chances are you already found someone you want to spend your life with.
You respect each other, you value their opinions, you love being with each other but are you in love? What are the signs of being in love? How do you know you are in the right relationship?
Although not all are same and every relationship has ups and downs, there are some signs of a good relationship true for all.
1. Personal space and comfortable pace
Although people in love spend a lot of time together, it doesn’t mean you always have to be. A good relationship is the one in which each partner respects the importance of personal space and privacy.
Apart from being together, you need time for being yourself, and if your partner understands it, you’re all right.
Having time to spend with friends and for hobbies keeps you fresh and also lets the relationship grow at a comfortable pace.
Sometimes you may feel that the relationship is moving fast but feels right. Nothing feels uncomfortable or imbalanced.
In a healthy relationship, you have a mutual understanding, and no one forces the other to do something. Whatever you do, you do together and also are happy with it.
2. You trust them
Speaking out your mind becomes easy when you believe each other. Talking about anything – be it good or bad – shows you are in a healthy relationship. You know they will be with you, will listen to your issues and still won’t judge you.
When the relationship feels right, you are always truthful and honest. You know you don’t need to tell them all, they trust you, but still, you don’t hold back.
You don’t have a fear of disappointing your better half, and you never feel like hiding anything from them.
You know you can trust them with your secrets and they won’t do anything to hurt you. The partners need to earn this trust, and if you already have it, you have found the right one.
3. You inspire each other
When someone decides to be in a relationship, they accept each other, even their flaws. But they inspire and motivate each other to be the best version of themselves.
You don’t need to change for them, nor do they have to, but you grow and get better together.
You appreciate each other, show you care and in a relationship, both make each other feel loved. You share your joys, the pain and don’t let the insignificant things affect your lives. And the most important, they are together whether the times are good or bad.
I hope you found your answer to “How do you know if you are in love?” You found someone and are willing to take the risk of getting hurt but still believing they won’t.
You’re scared to lose them. If all these sound true to you, it’s time to stop looking for a perfect partner anymore. You have found one, finally.